1. People change

2. People change

3. Staying together for the kids only works until the kids have grown into adults.

4. Having an affair because you are unhappy in a relationship is really stupid.

5. Never be a victim. Never let your spouse put you down.

6. Recognize when you've made a mistake, and don't be afraid to say "I'm sorry."

7. Learn to recognize when the love is gone.

8. When your spouse smacks the dog because he is angry at you, something is wrong.

9. When you are feeling anxious about going home after work, something is wrong.

10. Something is wrong.